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Play a Bigger Role in Life: Build Your Self Esteem


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With Strong Self-Esteem, You Are More Self-Confident

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Do you ever think that you are not playing the role which you should play in your life?

Don’t you think that you were born to play a leading role, a much bigger role in the real drama of your life? What is holding you back then? Only your own short sightedness.

In order to play a bigger role in life, you need to visualize a bigger picture of yourself. Once you have that picture before you, it will be much easier for you to paint that picture into reality.

Build Self Esteem Daily

Every morning, I look in the mirror and say, "I have to play a bigger role in life." These simple words make my day, a wonderful day, every day. My firm determination that I have to play a bigger role in life, keeps my mind in supreme working condition, fully prepared for playing a bigger, bigger, and much bigger role in life. No surprise, my every day is getting better than the day before.

Every night, before going to bed, I visualize that tomorrow is going to be better than today. And it happens! Yes, it happens!

While your body muscles need some kind of daily physical exercise, your brain tissues also need a dose of daily inspirational exercise. It is, therefore, important to keep yourself motivated all the time.

Build Self Esteem Out of Bigger Goals

You need to clearly define, preferably in writing, every single detail of your big dreams and ambitious goals. You must try to bring a bigger YOU out of your own person so that you are able to reach those big goals. Never think of living an ordinary person’s life! It’s a sin! It’s not your way of life. Let me repeat that you are born to play a leading role, a much bigger role in the real drama of your life.

Your confidence in yourself to reach your goals with strong determination to set new records of excellence, is your biggest asset. You are not far from playing a (much) bigger role in life. Play a BIGGER role in life!


Hifzur Rehman is the author of popular articles and editor of his website The website provides free tools, information and articles on personal growth, education, health and fitness, beauty and skin care, money, travel and leisure and information technology.

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